Thought of the day

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When people do something bad to others,

people automatically ask themselves, “Why did they do that?”

I also sometimes do that subconsciously and as a result, I get emotionally drained with my own self-created negativity.

Instead, let’s ask “What happened in their past?” because

people who are hurt hurt others.

If they were not exposed to pain, they will not know how to give pain to others. 

誰かに傷つかれたら、多くの方は無意識に「何で、そんなことしたんだ」と人を責めてしまうことが多いよね。私も、今でも時々しています。しかし、これだと、無意味にイライラになり、疲れるだけ。

代わりに、「過去に何が起きたんだろう?」と意識的に聞こう!。

何故なら、まだ傷ついている人が、他の人を傷つけることができるから。

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