About affirmations

Many people have GREAT doubt when doing affirmation. One person told me, “I have tried before. It never worked”  I asked him how many times did he practiced. He shyly responded, “3 times”    👉🏽AFFIRMATION can only work if it is CONSISTENT with emotional intensity. 👉🏽This is because what affirmation is doing is rewiring your neural pathway. ↓↓↓Read more about…

When you don’t ask for support

When you want to ask for request, know that …. if you don’t ask for request ⇒ you will feel bad if you ask for request ⇒ you will better   Create your own process map of “what to do when I get rejected” . This way, when you do get rejected which is inevitable…

How to deal with obstacle?

    Let’s really be honest here because only in honesty, can we make room for improvement. How do you deal with the obstacle? Bluntly speaking, many people make the mistake of taking the self-destructive or pointless approach. The more you lean into the  2 approaches, it makes you feel worse more and more. Therefore,…

LIFE TIP: Surrender

Surrender: non-attachment to the desired outcome   Sometimes people they attach so much to the desired outcome that they act out in fear subconsciously.  For example; getting angry or anxious because they are afraid that what they want may not happen being very controlling because they are afraid that it won’t happen    This approach will…

1 tip to change your future (1 min. read)

It is actually really easy to change your future! JUST CHANGE YOUR QUALITY OF YOUR SELF – TALK!    People with disempowering reality have disempowering self talk subconsciously or consciously  For example, I am not enough. I will fail anyways. I cannot do this.  People with empowering reality have empowering self talk consciously which later…

Idea to overcome any situation (1min read)

  Look at your life from a BIG perspective Life is like a school. You are in an extremely VIVID realistic learning of school!  Every situation is like a semester for you to learn something.  If you CONFRONT your lesson, then you get to experience another NEW different situation or semester. HOWEVER, if you avoid…

Idea (1 min read)

Essentially, you have 2 options every second. If you FOCUS on making excuses / blaming others, you will experience more pain;  you will feel stagnant,stuck, shame, more anger, more sense of loss and self-loathe   If you FOCUS on how you can take action to create a better solution, you will obviously have different result….

How to be in a accepting space (1 min read)

How to be in an accepting space … The quick answer is BEING YOU   There are 3 benefits of expressing yourself  Promote your own self-discovery  Let other people feel safe to be themselves / promote other people ‘s self-discovery  Be surrounded with the people who accept and love you     This is the thought…

#idea6_1min read

Everyday you make a decision.  Although, it may look subtle, in a life time, it makes a great difference.  Each decision you make is your choice.  Each emotion you feel is your choice.    NOBODY made you mad.  NOBODY made you feel inferior. NOBODY made you feel like shit.    YOU CHOSE TO BE AFFECTED…

Choose Your Own Input (1min. read) #idea3

Have you ever heard the phrase “You are the average of the 5 people you spend the most time with”   This not only applies with people, but with what you put in your mind.  If you nourish your mind with something empowering, you will take empowering action. Thus, have empowering experience / reality. However,…