How to deal with obstacle?

    Let’s really be honest here because only in honesty, can we make room for improvement. How do you deal with the obstacle? Bluntly speaking, many people make the mistake of taking the self-destructive or pointless approach. The more you lean into the  2 approaches, it makes you feel worse more and more. Therefore,…

TIP 1 : Happiness

Do not wait for happiness  Do not rely others for your happiness    With 👆mindset, you will always be waiting and you will always be sad because happiness, in this term, is very elusive. You will always be in constant fear because you will never know when this happiness can be taken away from you….

1 tip to change your future (1 min. read)

It is actually really easy to change your future! JUST CHANGE YOUR QUALITY OF YOUR SELF – TALK!    People with disempowering reality have disempowering self talk subconsciously or consciously  For example, I am not enough. I will fail anyways. I cannot do this.  People with empowering reality have empowering self talk consciously which later…

Why do I run away? (1 min read)

Do you run away from what is important for you? This is because your brain seeks for pleasure and avoids pain.  Therefore, if in short term, the situation will give you pain or you associate yourself with pain, you will avoid it    Start identifying what exactly is something you associate pain with!  This pain…

Idea to overcome any situation (1min read)

  Look at your life from a BIG perspective Life is like a school. You are in an extremely VIVID realistic learning of school!  Every situation is like a semester for you to learn something.  If you CONFRONT your lesson, then you get to experience another NEW different situation or semester. HOWEVER, if you avoid…

Read this when you are stressed (1 min read)

When you have tough times esp. at work, you tend to … get discouraged feel more worse pathetic make more mistakes start having self-destructive un-kind thoughts like “Why can’t I do this?” / “What is wrong with me”  start having pointless arguments like “What is wrong with them?”    The above mindset is like a…

Idea (1 min read)

Essentially, you have 2 options every second. If you FOCUS on making excuses / blaming others, you will experience more pain;  you will feel stagnant,stuck, shame, more anger, more sense of loss and self-loathe   If you FOCUS on how you can take action to create a better solution, you will obviously have different result….

Idea (1 min read)

You are where you are and what you are because of yourself. The only limit is our own-selves.  We are our own greatest enemy.    A baby is not born with a limited / scarcity – mindset. It is learned and programmed through our parents and society.   So, let’s learn where we learned to…