About affirmations

Many people have GREAT doubt when doing affirmation. One person told me, “I have tried before. It never worked”  I asked him how many times did he practiced. He shyly responded, “3 times”    👉🏽AFFIRMATION can only work if it is CONSISTENT with emotional intensity. 👉🏽This is because what affirmation is doing is rewiring your neural pathway. ↓↓↓Read more about…

Tips to how to declutter

Let’s be honest here. ✅Do you have a lot of stuff in your living space, working space or your schedule? ✅Do you sometimes feel overwhelmed by it or feel exhausted? . . If so, let’s do something about it. There is no reason to continue creating an environment like that which makes you feels stressed. …

When you don’t ask for support

When you want to ask for request, know that …. if you don’t ask for request ⇒ you will feel bad if you ask for request ⇒ you will better   Create your own process map of “what to do when I get rejected” . This way, when you do get rejected which is inevitable…

How to reduce most of your current stress

With working with my tribe or people who have taken my trial sessions, I have realized many of them do not vocalize without much conscious. This causes great stress, annoyance, irritation or anger. For me, whenever I want to vocalize what is okay and what is not okay, I remind myself with this graph. With clear…

6 STEPS when dealing with obstacles / argument in a relationship

One of the key reasons why we have great relationship even in our down time is … we always try to focus on ourselves  We do not focus on …  how the other person should change 👆👆 👆Doing this will not solve anything 👆👆 👆 This is a very pointless approach to expect the other…

How to deal with obstacle?

    Let’s really be honest here because only in honesty, can we make room for improvement. How do you deal with the obstacle? Bluntly speaking, many people make the mistake of taking the self-destructive or pointless approach. The more you lean into the  2 approaches, it makes you feel worse more and more. Therefore,…

TIP 1 : Happiness

Do not wait for happiness  Do not rely others for your happiness    With 👆mindset, you will always be waiting and you will always be sad because happiness, in this term, is very elusive. You will always be in constant fear because you will never know when this happiness can be taken away from you….

LIFE TIP: Surrender

Surrender: non-attachment to the desired outcome   Sometimes people they attach so much to the desired outcome that they act out in fear subconsciously.  For example; getting angry or anxious because they are afraid that what they want may not happen being very controlling because they are afraid that it won’t happen    This approach will…

1 tip to change your future (1 min. read)

It is actually really easy to change your future! JUST CHANGE YOUR QUALITY OF YOUR SELF – TALK!    People with disempowering reality have disempowering self talk subconsciously or consciously  For example, I am not enough. I will fail anyways. I cannot do this.  People with empowering reality have empowering self talk consciously which later…

Read this when you are stressed (1 min read)

When you have tough times esp. at work, you tend to … get discouraged feel more worse pathetic make more mistakes start having self-destructive un-kind thoughts like “Why can’t I do this?” / “What is wrong with me”  start having pointless arguments like “What is wrong with them?”    The above mindset is like a…